Why Creating Man-To-Woman Interactions Is Crucial For Your Dating Success

Men especially when they are beginning their journey as seducers of women spend a lot of time doing ineffective things before they realize that these things don't actually work.

They usually start their path by treating their dating life as a mere continuation of the other parts of their life. So, dating for them is just a continuation of friendship or other social interactions. They think that the same way they interact with other guys or with their friends, colleagues or family members applies in their interactions with members of the opposite sex.

This is one of the costliest mistake men make when they decide to improve their dating lives. It's costly both in terms of emotional energy and time and it leads many men to big disappointments. The truth is you need to learn the rules of any game before you start playing it. You need to learn the "language" of the game before you become any good at it. You can't speak French in China and expect to be understood, if you know what I am saying.

The Nature Of Attraction Between Men And Women

Men in the developed world learn how to be well-mannered and civilized. They are programmed to be considering and caring for others - and that's all right when it comes to how they interact with people in general. The problem starts, however, when men assume that the same rules apply to their interactions with women. Women are of course people as well and they deserve to be treated in a considerate and caring manner, but it is not through mere consideration and care that women get attracted to men.

Because society teaches you how to be a good human being, but does not teach you how to be an attractive man, men just do the easy thing: they assume that by being "good human beings" might as well do the trick and make them attractive in the eyes of women. And they end up paying the price for this assumption in the form of bad results with girls.

Being a good human being and a successful lover of women are simply two different languages that should not be confused. Just because you only know one thing it doesn't mean that this thing applies to everything. Behaviors that are considered to be good in general human interactions might as well become bad and counter-productive in the context of your interactions with women.

Let's see a few examples.

• Politeness in general human contact is good. Politeness in an erotic context though might be interpreted as weakness.

• Small talk in general human contact is good. Small talk in an erotic context though might be considered boring.

• Talking softly and in a low tone in general human contact is good. Talking softly and in a low tone in an erotic context though might be considered insecure.

• Being considerate in general human contact is good. Being considerate in an erotic context though might be seen as lack of confidence.

What is different between a general human context and an erotic context, you might be wondering.

One word: attraction.

• Attraction is about friction and tension, not about complete agreement and harmony.

• Attraction is non-linear. It's not based on linear rules of reciprocation and kindness.

• Attraction entails an element of power dynamics between the two sexes.

This is why things that are considered good in general human communication might be bad for attraction. This is why you can't possibly be a friend to a girl and get laid with it. You need to establish an erotic framework with her from the get-go to make this happen.

No woman will feel attraction for you just because you treat her like your sister, your brother, your coworker or BFF.

The Benefits of Creating Man-To-Woman Interactions With Girls

You Become More Efficient

When you treat a woman like a woman and not like some buddy of yours you increase the chances to get what you want with her. Going directly for what you want makes it more clear to women and therefore they can decide faster whether what you want is also what they want.

You Save Time

It follows from the first point that going direct, which means showing your erotic intent, will at least save you valuable time, in case any specific girl you approach isn't interested in you. So, by being man-to-woman you either get the girl or you save time to take your chance with other girls. It's a win-win.

You Become Attractive To Women

Any man who has the balls to express his erotic intent in a charming way becomes automatically attractive to women, even if not all women you are going to talk to will be emotionally or sexually available for you. The man who approaches women and doesn't feel the need to "hide his banana" is seen by women as a man who got rewarded in the past by showing intent. On the contrary, the guy who is too timid to show any direct interest in the girl signals the exact opposite: that whenever he tried to express his erotic interest in a girl, he got "punished" for it by getting rejected. So, just by showing intent you telegraph to women that you are a success story.

Ways To Create Erotic Interactions With Women

Give Women A Direct Compliment

When you cold approach a girl, you are a stranger to her. She doesn't know you and she doesn't know the exact reason you are talking to her. Is it because you want directions? Is it because you are selling something? Is it because you want her money? By giving her a direct compliment about her style, body, facial features, walk or fashion you clear the atmosphere from the get-go. You show her that you respect your time as well as hers and that you mean business. It shows balls, and girls love balls. Literary and figuratively.

Keep Small Talk To A Minimum

Boring men love small talk. It's their turf. They are incredibly good in asking predictable questions and talking about ordinary topics of the everyday life. The problem with that is that women get terribly bored by it. While small talk is a great way to be friendly with a girl, it's a terrible way to be erotic. If you intend to have sex with a woman, you'd better reduce your small talk with her.

Look Right Through Her Eyes

Few men can actually start an interaction with a woman, while looking her in the eyes and keeping the eye contact. Most guys turn away their looks fast or even worse they look down, which in turn shows to the woman that you are too self-conscious and you lack confidence. If you manage to look her in the eye and keep it like that for a few seconds, you will create effective man-to-woman interactions.

Tease Her

You are not going to attract a girl with platitudes. Dare to unsettle her a little. Say something slightly provocative that can shake her out of her comfort zone. Don't play it safe. All the nice guys in the world play it safe and do not get rewarded for it, so you might as well differentiate yourself from the masses of undaring men who are scared of taking risks in order to bring a girl into their bed.

Touch Her

Don't be creepy. Just touch her in a gentle way when you make a point, when you make her laugh or when you want to get her attention for something. Most guys avoid touching a girl altogether and they end up creating awkward interactions with girls which are the complete opposite of creating man-to-woman interactions.

Propose Something

So, you approached a girl, you kept small talk to a minimum, you teased her, you touched her, and you kept attractive eye contact with her. What would be the point of all these things, if you didn't intend to propose something to her? The purpose of a man-to-woman interaction is for you and her to end up in bed together. For this to happen you need to invite women to do something with you, join you in some sort of common activity, invite her to a private "bubble" between you and her.