A Bold Man In Action Is Like Porn For Girls

Whenever you approached a girl who was with her girl friend, have you ever noticed the friend's reaction? Her face, her mannerisms, her overall attitude?

We have seen this time and time again: when a guy with decent fundamentals approaches a girl, looks her in the eyes, and starts talking to her, her girl friends watch his approach like some kind of spectacular show.

We have seen the same happening to us. We would approach a girl on the street who was walking with a girl friend. Our target would gladly stop and give us the time of the day to chat her up and meet her.

As we were talking to her, we would notice that her friend stepped slightly on the side, letting us talk to her friend almost in private, while herself kept her eyes glued on us.

The girl friend was looking at us with immense curiosity, a slight smile of the kind "Oh, look at that...There are still men with balls" or "Do these things still happen? Good job, dude!"

There were times when the girl friend was looking at the entire situation with pure wonder, as if something very exciting was happening and some other times when the girl friend came into the conversation, interrupted us and said: "You know what, dude? Men should learn from you".

Little did they know that men actually DO learn from us in Men of Charm.

Why did we get such amazingly good reactions by the girl friends of our targets? What did these girls like so much about us approaching their friends and talking to them?

One-word answer: BALLS.

Women Love Boldness According To Research

Research has shown that bold action can be a key factor in dating success for men. According to a study by Hamilton and Meston (2016), men who take the initiative and ask women out on dates are more likely to have success in the dating world. Women tend to prefer men who are confident and proactive, rather than passive or indecisive.

Another study by Back, Schmukle, and Egloff (2010) found that confidence is one of the most attractive qualities in a man. Men who are confident in their appearance, social skills, and ability to attract women are seen as more desirable by both men and women.

Engaging in risk-taking behavior can also be attractive to women. Research by Wilson and Daly (2006) found that men who engage in risk-taking behavior, such as trying new activities or being adventurous, are often seen as more exciting and attractive by women. By taking risks, men show that they are willing to take chances and live life to the fullest.

Being assertive is another key factor in dating success for men. A study by Yager and Frey (2018) found that men who are assertive in expressing their desires and boundaries are more likely to have success in attracting and retaining women. Assertiveness is seen as a sign of confidence, self-respect, and clear communication.

Finally, research has shown that persistence can pay off in the dating world. A study by Jonason, Li, and Madson (2012) found that men who persist in pursuing a relationship, even in the face of rejection or setbacks, are more likely to ultimately find success. Persistence is associated with determination, commitment, and a willingness to work hard for what one wants. Not to confuse this one with needy chasing, though.

In a nutshell, research has shown that BALLS, that is bold action, can be the distinguishing factor between men who get what they want with women and men who don't. By taking the initiative, showing confidence, engaging in risk-taking behavior, being assertive, and persisting in the face of obstacles, you can increase your chances of attracting and retaining women and enjoy a more fulfilled and more abundant dating life.

A Man Playing The Field Is Hot For Girls

So, when a woman sees you approach another woman, she sees your bold masculine energy unfold before her naked eyes. It's like when you see tits, legs, and asses. That's your porn. It's all about female physical beauty for you. As a man, you seek by nature a healthy, fertile "vessel" to put your seed in. Physical beauty is to your masculine eyes a sign of health and fertility.

But as we wrote in another post, the way you are attracted to girls is not the same as the way girls are attracted to you. Women are attracted to masculine personality traits more than they are attracted to men's physical appearance. It is the way you externalize your masculine desire for the object of your desire (which is a woman, herself or another) that makes girls wet.

Because women are not supposed to be obvious with their desires, but instead they are supposed to be more nuanced, diplomatic, and indirect, they get excited when they see a man behaving in a way that they themselves can't. Women just dress up, take care of themselves, and put themselves out there to be SEEN. They are not the initiators of the mating game. They are the stimulus, but not the ones who do the deed. They are just waiting for men to see them and act upon their sexual desire, if they find them attractive. In this sense, women see men in action with wonder and admiration because men can so freely express their erotic desire, and such direct, free and unhinged by social conventions expression of masculine desire is literally like porn for girls.

Do you find it hard to express your erotic desires to women? Do you suffer from approach anxiety? Take action. Book a coaching call with us.