The 80/20 Rule: Why It Can Supercharge Your Dating Life With Women
We can’t repeat enough that a man who is successful with women is the one who takes massive action. The one who is not stingy with his masculine energy. The guy who approaches large numbers of women.
While hard work and unstoppable action are the top requirements for achieving any goal you want in your life, they are not enough in themselves. To really get what you want another ingredient is required as well which might be even more important than massive action: the ingredient of efficiency.
Without this element, everything you do to meet and attract women becomes a pointless, robotic, and repetitive process. Every action you take based only on quantity alone without minding quality as well is doomed to fail and cause you unnecessary confusion.
The Rule of Efficiency is here to save you time and energy.
It has a specific analogy and it’s everywhere.
80/20
Like the Law of Gravity you don’t see it, but you can detect it everywhere you look at, including your dating life.
80% of your results come from 20% of your efforts
80% of global wealth is produced by 20% of world population.
80% of the content of a book lies in 20% of its pages
80% of the profits of a company comes from 20% of its clients
80% of women has sex with 20% of men
80% of the sex you have ever had is attributed to 20% of your approaches
The examples are endless.
Your Energy Is Not Unlimited
…and neither is your time.
If your energy or time were infinite the whole discussion wouldn’t have a point. You would simply do whatever without sweating the results so much.
Because, however, your time as well as your energy are finite you owe it to yourself to cherish them and make the best use of them possible.
The 80/20 Rule might seem to you both disappointing and liberating.
Disappointing because it reminds you that 80% of everything you do are almost useless. Liberating because it gives you a number you can focus on that gives you the majority of your results.
In a nutshell, it frees your mind to seek and detect that hard core of things you do with women that brings you your best results. It guides you through what works and what doesn’t work.
The Two Sides Of Efficiency
Efficiency in your dating life as a man means two things:
You systematically do what empirically works
You mercilessly cut off what empirically doesn’t work
So, what works with women?
What is that 20% which will bring 80% of the desired outcomes with the opposite sex?
From our own experience, here is an indicative list of what we found it does work:
Simple men’s fashion, but with an edge
Strong eye contact
Confident body language
Verbal readiness
Slight touching from the get-go of your interactions with women
Going out often and approaching the women you like
Convenient sex logistics.
Outcome independence from any specific result with any specific girl.
Listening more, talking less.
The above list is all about the “yeses” you must say in order to improve your efficiency in meeting women and bringing them into your bed and life. It’s a to-do list of sorts, but that alone is not enough.
You also need to say the big “noes” to anything that wastes your time and masculine energy.
Most men even when they successfully adopt all those good practices in their game have tremendous difficulty eliminating from their dating lives women’s behaviors that harm their chances to succeed in the mating game.
The girl who gave you her number, but never picks up or never texts back? Cut her off.
The girl who has no problem having endless small talk with you via text, but always evades your specific proposals for a date? Cut her off.
The girl who is always “busy” every time you invite her out, but never makes a counter-proposal of her own? Cut her off.
The girl you approach who gives you short and dry answers without ever picking the conversion up or asking anything about you? Cut her off.
The girl who goes out with you on a marathon of dates, but always rejects your invites to meet somewhere in private? Cut her off.
As a man, if you really want to see your desires fulfilled in your dating life with women, you have no option.
You must develop the personality of the efficient man who has no qualms about taking out from his life anything that doesn’t serve his goals.
The 80/20 Rule is your best wing man.
If you read this far it means you are willing to start using it in your journey to meet and attract the women you want.
We are here to teach you, inspire you, and supercharge your results.
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