4 Characteristics Of Masculine Energy Beautiful Women Can't Get Enough Of

In Men of Charm, we think that most problems men face nowadays in their interactions and relationships with women are rooted, one way or another, to lack of understanding about what masculine energy is and how to keep connected to it.

Men not knowing how to behave in a manly way is maybe the most important reason why they don't have the dating life that they would wish for.

By "manly" we don't mean some kind of macho caricature, but a man who understands and accepts his masculine nature without guilt.

We are talking about a type of man who knows exactly what makes him a man and acts accordingly without succumbing to the edited down version of the masculine that modern-day culture and social programming wants him to adopt.

Without further ado, let's see four core characteristics of masculine energy that beautiful women are attracted to.

1. Clear Intention

How manly would a guy who needs fifteen minutes to decide if he wants coffee or tea seem to you? Not very much, right? Clarity of intention is maybe one of the most crucial aspects of masculine energy. Knowing what you want. Having certain preferences. Having specific tastes that you mean to follow. Having a clear plan or desire in your head towards which you move.

Being uncertain for too long, being wishy-washy and full of doubts is as far from masculine energy as China is from Greece. A man can really honor his masculine nature by having mental clarity about who he is and what he wants. Just take a look at some of the most iconic male film characters of all times: James Dean, Steve McQueen, Sean Connery, Roger Moore, Harrison Ford, Sean Penn or George Clooney. Do these guys seem uncertain? Do they present themselves as lost in deciding what they want? Do they look guilty for knowing exactly what they do and where they attempt to go?

Mental clarity is the basic ground on which any other layer of your masculine personality should be built. Without it you simply can't live a happy life as a man. This doesn't mean that you are a robot of certainty at all times or that you don't spend at least some phases of your life in a state of lesser certitude. It does, however, mean that you always find the light in the tunnel and you manage to get on track with your life. Being a man is about creating order out chaos. It is for this exact reason that women like confident men: they offer to their less structured lives a sense of security and certainty. A woman might change her mind multiple times, she might spend long periods in her life unsure of who she is and what she wants, and nobody is going to criticize her for it. For women, uncertainty and doubt are considered to be "normal" and even cute. But for a guy these same qualities might seem weak and unattractive. Women adore men who are sure. Period.

2. Action

Being passive or being in a state of hope and expectation is not consistent with masculine energy. Doing things, taking calculated risks, being a bold action taker based on the mental clarity that we have talked above is one of the most attractive qualities you might have as a man in a modern world where laziness and overconsumption prevail.

We live in a world where men live lives on autopilot, lives without clear intentions and therefore without consistent action:

• Doing the work instead of trying to avoid it.

• Focusing on consumption instead of creation.

• Doing the easy thing instead of the hard thing.

• Cutting corners.

• Seeking magic wands and silver bullets instead of embracing pain and sacrifice as necessary elements for growth.

• Having short attention span and not finishing what you started.

• These are the enemies of masculine energy because being masculine is about taking systematic action to get what you want.

Every time you see a beautiful woman that you like but fail to approach her, you fail to act as a man.

Every time you fear rejection and don't go out of your house to meet the women you want, you become passive and fail to behave as a man.

Every time you find yourself living for the day and not having the desire, ambition, and passion to penetrate the world and make your presence felt, you fail to exercise your masculine energy.

Women love men who are leaders and protagonists of their own story, not men who are cameos in someone else's story.

3. Logic

Men in their masculine think and act in terms of logic. They navigate the world, seeking rational explanations. They want to know how things work and they tend to understand human behavior as the result of a set of causes.

A man's thinking is typically linear in nature, trying to establish causal relations between cause and effect. For this reason, logical inconsistencies wouldn't be a typical man's favorite thing.

Masculine energy is centered around rational thinking, which makes this both a factor of attraction and a factor of misunderstanding for men. On the one hand, women like that men are so down-to-earth, since this quality is opposite to women's tendency to focus more on the emotional side of things. On the other hand, too much focus on rational thinking might make a man boring and predictable in the eyes of a woman. In a nutshell, men want to understand, but women want to feel without necessarily understanding why.

4. Emotional Distance

The masculine energy can remain calm and self-collected during stressful situations. Under pressure, a man should be able to keep his composure, without losing his shit. There is nothing more unattractive to a woman than a man who acts like a little bitch when things don't go his way.

Remaining stoic and being able to respond, without reacting is extremely attractive to women. The more feminine a woman is the more she is intrigued by a man who doesn't have extreme emotional reactions in times of crises.

Women are supposed to be the more emotional parts of the equation, and if you are too emotional as a man, girls will be appalled because no girl wants to date herself. She has enough psychological ups and downs on her own, she doesn't need one more person for that.

What Does This Mean For You?

Read carefully and understand what is the nature of your masculine energy and behave accordingly in your life, especially when it comes to women. If you stay loyal to your inner masculine core, you have higher odds to project an attractive masculine personality that beautiful women lust for. Use those four characteristics as a short checklist in your everyday interactions with girls. If you find that you lack in any one of those characteristics, stop yourself, think and change course accordingly. Just ask yourself:

• How centered am I on my masculine energy?

• How loyal am I to my masculine core?

• Do I exude mental clarity or mental confusion and doubts to a girl?

• Do I take massive action to get what I want or do I simply wait for things to happen to me?

• Am I reasonable, do I think straight or am I flying to the clouds?

• And last, but not least, do I behave like a strong man with composure or do I act out of control like an overemotional mess?

As long as you remember that women are attracted to masculine men and not to just another version of themselves, you will always get yourself back on track when life tries to pull you out of your masculine essence. We are here to help you and to guide you.