4 Characteristics of Feminine Energy All Men Should Learn And Understand

In our previous post, we talked about four key characteristics of masculine energy because unless you know yourself as a man you can't really attract the women you want and build the dating life that you want.

Nonetheless, knowing your masculine nature and acting according to it is only one part of the attraction and dating game. There is the other part of it you need to master as well and that is the nature of feminine energy.

Let's dive into four core characteristics of the female energy:

1. Volatility (Rather Than Stability)

A change of heart is a woman's prerogative, the saying goes . For various reasons, which are even biological in nature, women's moods and behaviors might fluctuate. Women are more likely to be creatures of the present moment, and since every present moment is different from another, their behavior might literally change from moment to moment.

In the context of the feminine energy, this changeable element might take many forms:

• It might take the form of indecision, not knowing what to choose among many possible options.

• It might take the form of lack of clarity about what a girl really wants regarding a man or a situation.

• It might take the form of emotional swings, from positive to negative, from happy to unhappy.

While in the case of man a changing mood and attitude is totally unattractive, a changing behavior in the case of a girl might even be seen as "cute". It is exactly this volatile nature of the feminine that makes women seek "protection", clarity, and leadership by the masculine. If you don't understand that volatility is synonymous with femininity, you will feel frustrated and out of control with girls.

If, on the other hand, you accept it as a natural part of the female psyche that has nothing to do with you as a man most of the times, then you are much more prepared to handle the moody swings of a girl.

2. Expectation (Rather Than Action)

Contrary to the masculine, the mission of which is to penetrate the world through massive action, the feminine energy is oriented towards expectation and hope. For women, life feels that happens "to them" rather than "by them", and that is even more true when it comes to their dating lives. While for you as a guy you need to act in order to achieve certain results, for the girl all she needs to do is put herself out there and let life happen.

Because women attract passively, all they need to do is be out and about and look good. They might throw some indirect green lights here and there, but beyond that it is not their role to act directly to get a man's attention or interest. A woman is not supposed to be the initiator of the mating process. The feminine is the stimulus, not the agent of action.

3. Feelings (Rather Than Logic)

While masculine energy is about knowing how things work and what are the causes behind a certain behavior or reality, feminine energy is about feeling rather than understanding.

Women don't seek rational explanations, but they focus instead on how things "feel" instinctually. For women analyzing life is not a priority, but experiencing life is. This is why many men fail with women: because they fail to speak to women's feeling and instead they focus on being logical towards them.

Although being a down-to-earth man is attractive to women because you provide balance to a woman's more emotional side, most guys overdo it with being too much of a square and end up being utterly boring and predictable to women.

You need to learn how to stir and guide a woman's emotions without becoming overemotional yourself. You also need to understand that women like to experience, not only one, but a whole range of different feelings, otherwise they get bored.

Girls do not even want to experience good feelings all the time. Emotional monotony, while it feels paradise to you, is hell for women. Girls want to be charmed and attracted by emotional unpredictability and variety. If they get too much "feel good" emotions, they soon start subconsciously desiring sad or "bad emotions" without even themselves understanding why.

4. Emotional Involvement (Rather Than Emotional Distance)

Exactly because women place more emphasis on feeling than thinking, they tend to be more emotionally involved in their lives, especially their dating lives. The feminine is more likely to be affected emotionally by a certain behavior or situation or even magnify it in terms of significance.

Something that for the masculine seems completely insignificant, it might be very important for the feminine because the feminine interprets the situation from an emotional point of view, while the masculine from a logical one. Since women are more emotionally involved are at the same time emotionally more sensitive with higher levels of empathy and emotional intelligence.

This is why girls might create drama for no obvious reason, which you must learn how to manage if it is within reasonable limits or get away from it if it is extreme.

Conclusion

After you understand your masculine self, you need to understand the female energy, if your goal is to create a fulfilling dating life with the opposite sex.

If you understand that female energy leans into volatility rather than stability, expectation rather than action, feelings rather than logic, and emotional involvement rather than emotional detachment, you will be far ahead than most men ever will and you will have much better chances of becoming the attractive man hot women want.